Memories are only a piece of the puzzle, my Siffrin. Your actions, your words, the things you believe... those are what make you whole. Your memories inform that, yes, but you are more than them all the same.

[ But that isn't to say they aren't important either, and he falls into a contemplative sort of quiet, giving the idea more though. ]

Even so... how important are they to you? If you feel you need them to be whole, then that speaks for itself.